Difficult Relationships

Are you in an unhealthy or challenging relationship? Maybe you find yourself stuck in the same painful patterns—attracting the same type of partner and not understanding why. Perhaps you feel isolated, avoiding deep connections out of fear of getting hurt. Or maybe you’re struggling because your partner has an addiction, is a workaholic, or is even abusive.

If any of this resonates, you’re not alone. Here are some common relationship struggles and how they might be affecting you:

Co-dependency

Co-dependency in its most basic form can be understood as an unhealthy dependence upon people, behaviors, or things. Ultimately, there is such a lack of identity within a person from previous wounding that they search for themselves externally. My passion is to help you find your true identity. Allowing you to enjoy relationships and things but not needing them to complete who you are as a person. You were created with great purpose and are exceptionally unique and there is a tremendous amount freedom in discovering who you were truly created to be.

Lack of Connection

Do you struggle to form real connections? Or maybe the moment someone gets too close, you push them away—sabotaging anything real before it even begins?

This can feel like a strange mix of safety and loneliness at the same time. There’s always a reason behind the relationship patterns we develop, and the truth is, they won’t change on their own. Where do you see yourself in five years if this pattern continues? Still living guarded and afraid? Or do you want something more?

What to do

Whether you tend to distance yourself from others or find yourself in co-dependent relationships, the root cause is often unprocessed wounds from the past.

Some say counseling is for the weak—I think that’s whack. It takes real courage to face your pain, work through unhealthy patterns, and build something better. My goal is to help you understand how you got here, process the wounds that shaped you, and find new ways of living—so you can experience true freedom and authenticity in all areas of your life.

If you’re ready to break free from these patterns and build healthier, more fulfilling relationships, I’d love to walk alongside you in that journey.